EUTHANASIA

1. Scheduling the appointment – When scheduling, we schedule to ensure time can be dedicated to you and your pet. This also gives you more privacy with fewer people around during your time of grief. If you are unsure if it is time to euthanize your pet, we can start with a quality of life assessment appointment.

2. Fill out the paperwork – The law states that owners must give written, signed consent for any euthanasia procedure performed on a pet and confirmation that the pet has not bitten anyone in the past ten days. We will also need to know the aftercare you want for your pet. Making the decision about aftercare prior to the procedure is highly recommended so you can think about your options. For example, choosing to get your pet’s ashes back in a special urn.

3. The Procedure – We start by administering a sedative medication. This helps to ensure your pet is peaceful and does not experience pain. This medication takes 5-10 minutes to take full effect.  At this point, your pet will be very relaxed and maybe sleeping.  When you are ready, the final injection is administered, this is a high dose of an anesthesia drug that will cause the heart to stop and your pet will pass without experiencing pain.

After euthanasia, you will have three options:

1. Individual Cremation

Your pet’s body will be taken to our trusted cremation service center. Once your pet’s remains have returned to us we will call you to let you know that you can pick them up. This process usually takes 7-10 days.

2. Communal Cremation

Your pet’s body will be cremated, with no remains returned.

3. Home Burial

Each city has ordinances that regulate home burial. We recommend burial at least 3 feet deep. Consider burial with a note or a much-loved toy.

Often, our pets are much more than just pets – they are family, friends, sidekicks, and teammates. Experiencing the loss of a pet is a very personal and individual thing. It can be surprisingly more challenging and painful than we expect.

Grieving the loss of a pet can occur on a physical, emotional, behavioral, cognitive, and spiritual level. It can be exhausting. Our hearts feel broken, our minds alternate from confusion to guilt. We spend a lot of time asking “could I have done something better or different?” These feelings are all normal.

Depending on your comfort level, there are many ways to express your feelings. Some ideas are to:

• Write about your loss in a journal.
• Write a private letter to the pet you lost.
• Create a memorial in a frame (or via your personal social media page.) These memorials can include pictures or videos of your pet, your pet’s identification tags, and/or an urn containing your pet’s ashes if you opted to have the ashes returned to you.
• Use a portion of their ashes to be made into a pendant or jewelry.
• Plant a tree in honor of your pet.
• Make a donation to or volunteer your time at a local organization of your choice.

While friends and family members can offer support, they may not understand the sensitivity of your grief and can unintentionally react in a way that leaves you feeling hurt. There are other ways to acquire the support and comfort you may need at this time. Many seek comfort through local animal grievance support groups or through a pet loss support hotline. It is healthy and even encouraged to talk about the life you shared with your pet as this is an important part of your healing process.

• COMPANION ANIMAL LOVE, LOSS & MEMORIES (CALLM) The University of Minnesota Veterinary Medical Center (VMC) offers a bereavement group to support those grieving the loss of a beloved animal. CALLM provides attendees with a supportive and confidential environment in which to share their story. Sessions are free. For more information call VMC Social Work Services at 612.624.9372
• ANIMAL EMERGENCY & REFERRAL CENTER OF MINNESOTA PET LOSS SUPPORT GROUP The group meets at the Oakdale location. For more information please call 651.501.3766
• THE ANIMAL HUMANE SOCIETY OF GOLDEN VALLEY PET LOSS SUPPORT GROUP The support group is led by compassionate facilitators and is provided to the public for free. For more information, visit www.animalhumanesociety.org/services/pet-loss-support-group
• VETERINARY WISDOM FOR PET PARENTS www.veterinarywisdomforpetparents.com
• THE AMERICAN SOCIETY FOR THE PREVENTION OF CRUELTY TO ANIMALS (ASPCA) PET LOSS HOTLINE www.aspca.org/pet-care/pet-loss
• TUFTS PET LOSS HOTLINE 508.839.7966 http://vet.tufts.edu/petloss/
• VHA Pet Memorial https://veterinaryha.org/in-memoriam/

• A Dog’s Purpose by W. Bruce Cameron
• Saying Goodbye to the Pet You Love: A Complete Resource to Help You Heal by Lorri A. Greene, Ph.D. and Jacquelyn Landis

• Goodbye Friend, Healing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has Ever Lost a Pet by Gary Kowalski
• Healing Your Grieving Heart ‘For Teens:’ 100 Practical Ideas by Dr. Alan Wolfelt
• Saying Goodbye to Your Pet: Children Can Learn to Cope with Pet Loss by Marge Eaton Heegaard

• Is euthanasia painful?
• No. The only discomfort felt by the animal might be the insertion of the needle or catheter into their vein.
• Is euthanasia instant?
• Euthanasia solution generally produces unconsciousness within minutes and sometimes seconds. Your veterinarian will listen for a heart-beat using a stethoscope and pronounce the pet deceased when the heart stops.
• What can I expect to see happen as my pet passes?
• When the animal passes away, there are specific events and signs that you might witness. The animal may display intermittent gasps after the heart has stopped because the diaphragm of the animal contracts spasmodically as the animal’s brain and muscles are shutting down. The animal may also urinate and/or defecate. The most important thing to remember is that these events are normal and are not painful for your pet.
• Will my pet’s eyes close?
• A pet’s eyes usually remain open after it has been euthanized.
• What do I tell my kids?
• This may be your child’s first experience with loss and feelings of grief. This could be a good opportunity for you to teach your child to accept and express his/her feelings in healthy ways, free of expectation and embarrassment. While it is tempting to try to protect your child from emotional pain, telling your child that the pet ran away or went to live with someone else could invoke feelings of abandonment and rejection. It is best to be as honest as possible with your child.
• Will my other pets at home sense this loss too?
• Research shows compelling evidence that your other pets can sense the loss of another. In addition, your pets will often pick up on your emotions. Understand that during this time of loss and grief, your other pets may need extra attention and comfort as well. Signs that your other pets may be experiencing grief can include, but are not limited to:

• Increased desire for attention
• Separation anxiety
• Decreased eating/drinking
• Increased vocalization
• Increased sensitivity to noise
• Searching for the missing pet

Some animals to seem unaffected by the absence of a pet and that is completely normal. Treat these animals just as you always have.
Pets that are grieving and showing obvious signs of loss can be given special attention through extra pats and rubs, walks or time outdoors, and appropriate treats to encourage their appetite. Even giving them a blanket with the deceased pet’s scent on it may bring comfort.

NOTE:

It is important to be conscious of the duration and intensity of comfort giving, as animals are quick to adapt to this special attention. Too much of this can reward and develop unwanted behavior. For example, giving treats each time the pet vocalizes or becomes restless will encourage that behavior.
Keep a close eye on elderly pets. Decreased appetite and thirst is far more serious in elderly animals and can cause life-threatening issues.

Be aware of the changes in your animal hierarchies, especially dogs, that may occur following a pet’s passing. If the deceased animal was a dominant animal, you may notice an increase in aggression with your remaining pets as they compete for status and dominance in their new arrangement. Talk to your veterinarian about these behavioral changes should they occur.